WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUR CHILD: A LEVEL OR A BRANCH FROM FORM 4 ?

Welcome to BuloBoard where all motivational and inspirational articles are born. It's coming to the end of the year and your son or daughter has to sit for form four and of course in due time, the results are awaited. They have struggled to make you proud of them. And now it's your part that remains, thought of.

 But the question remains: Are you going to let him or her branch right after form four or you want him back there for more two years in an advanced level ?

  Am not trying to say that they don't have choices of their own, but before you let them choose where to go, remember it's your duty too to let them roll on in the right path. So having a seat with them and talk out__what your opinion is based on and what their opinions are based on too, with deeper explanations from both sides, leaves them relieved and leaves them with no such a comment like "Dad forced me to do this, I would be better off with this" and though their opinions are not taken or considered, at least for a good reason they'll know why you chose what you chose.

 Mostly this affects the girl child, because most of the parents think girls shouldn't decide for themselves especially in such situations. I understand most of the parents make decisions for their children on their own because they are afraid of what they take as the low brains to encounter hardships or take wrong leads. And yes you find them right at that.

    For example, you want you want your son to go to a single school and you explain to him how you don't want his studies messed up with let's say relationships stuff and he says he thinks such and such a mixed school is good at science subjects, and that's why he wants there. 

You see, you're all right here and you're all after he studies well. Your opinions are based on education merits. And does this mean it's a tie ? No, as a parent, you now look at what is more advantageous, is it taking him to a single school, which are known to be expensive or you're to allow him study in a mixed school good at science subjects and where fees might be more affordable ?

Or is it okay with you if he studies in an environment where he is capable of adapting bad habits like homosexuality or in an environment where he or she is capable of having a girlfriend or boyfriend.

So before you click on the link below, take a minute and think of your son or daughter, do you always sit him down and go through what you're about to do for him or her ? If you haven't, then please talk to him or her.

If you want to dive in more about Benefits and setbacks of branching and joining A level. Click here:  A LEVEL OR BRANCH, BENEFITS AND SETBACKS.